EP 153 Love Ain’t Gonna Say Itself: The Power of Words in Parenting and Why It’s Worth It

For generations, fathers were expected to provide, protect, and keep their emotions in check. Love was often shown, but rarely spoken. But does it have to be that way? In this episode of Clemenz With a Z, we dive into the generational expectations of fatherhood, the unspoken rules around masculinity, and why words—especially words like "I love you"—carry more weight than we realize.

I share personal stories, explore the impact of silence, and unpack how simple words can change everything. We’ll talk about why dads often find it easier to express love to their daughters than their sons, and how cultural norms have shaped the way men navigate emotional connection.

But this isn’t just about reflection—it’s about action. I’ll offer practical ways for dads to start breaking the cycle, to show up differently, and to create a new legacy where love isn’t just assumed, but heard.

Because love ain’t gonna say itself.

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If you’re a dad, if you had a dad, or if you’re thinking about what fatherhood really means—I’d love to hear from you. Whether it’s about breaking cycles, figuring out how to show up for your kids, or just sharing your experience, this space is open. Let’s talk about what it means to raise the next generation, to challenge old patterns, and to redefine what being a father looks like. You can reach me via email at clemenzwithaz@gmail.com, or send me a DM on Instagram at the Clemenz With a Z podcast page.

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